It's November already! Are the cold weather and early sunsets keeping you inside too? I have found some creative ways to keep myself entertained that don't involve over-indulging on all this season's wonderful, calorie-filled, comfort foods.
I try to show a little restraint not only at the dinner table, but in the bedroom. Let me elaborate a little and tell you about the Frisky Under the Bed Restraints. These restraints are all one "H" shaped set that goes under your mattress and the cuffs wrap around so that you can easily restrain that special someone.. comfortably! Everything adjusts so you can have as much or as little room to move as you want. Restrain that lucky person and watch them writhe under every touch. Try an added blindfold for some extra fun! Let your lover anxiously anticipate your next move.. whether it be a kiss on the neck, trailing a feather down their torso, or maybe using an ice cube for a unique sensation anywhere.. or all of the above! Restraints are especially good for people who cannot stop their mind from wondering off during sex. If you are mentally writing your grocery list while doing it, I strongly encourage you to try these! Nothing keeps you more in the moment then letting someone have complete control over you.. or being the one in control..
Now "bondage" is still taboo these days for reasons I may never understand, but I am urging you to start small and try it! You are missing out on worlds of fun if you've never been restrained in any way. The Frisky restraints are a great way to try out letting someone have control of you and if it's your first time here are some tips:
1. Set a Timer~ If you are uncomfortable but want to try something new, like being restrained, give your partner a time limit and have him or her to untie you when the timer goes off.
2. Start Small~ Don't want to invest in restraints not knowing if you'll love them? Try starting smaller by using handcuffs or even just having your hands held above your head when things start heating up.
3. Wear a Blindfold~ Many people are self-conscious, especially when trying new things. There is comfort in knowing you cannot be seen so try blindfolding your partner.. that way you can both enjoy it!
4. Accept Your Inner Freak~ Everyone likes different things. Restraints, and products of similar nature, are sold because people like them! It is normal.. and totally worth stepping outside of your comfort zone!
*Warning: Don't let a stranger restrain you. Restraints are recommended for use with people you know and trust!*